Wedding dinner - a ceremony to celebrate the union of two people, we call them a couple.
What else besides celebrating the union?
Reunion, perhaps, especially if it's a wedding of someone you know since childhood or schooldays. That's the time when you get to meet up with long lost friends, or friends whom you have not met for quite a while ... all those catching up and updating each other with what has happened the last few years since we see each other.
I have been to a few of such wedding these few years, and it has been really, really great to be able to reconnect with long lost friends since schooldays.
If it is a wedding of a colleague from your previous workplace that you are attending, then that's also a potential reunion time. However, if it's a wedding of a colleague in your current workplace, I would say that it's nothing much different from those daily lunch time that you have. You might end up sitting with the same bunch of people, talking about the same old topic which you discuss during lunch time. Worse still if you talk about work during the dinner :p
Someone I know of told me her wedding dinner somehow looks like a company's annual dinner. Half of the hall consists of colleagues from her workplace while the other half colleagues from her husband's workplace. So when it comes to yum sing (i.e. cheers) time, seems that both sides tried to outperform each other by cheering louder and louder (ha!).
What happen if you attend a wedding dinner whereby you do not know anyone else besides the bride and bridegroom? Well, you do have a choice of not attending. However, if you choose to attend, you have the choice to only savour the food and wine, or to get to know new friends.
I have just attended such a wedding this evening (although with a little twist for the fact that I still know one person there and not totally being alone). It's a wedding of someone whom I have known for at least half a decade. During the wedding, not only I choose to savour the food and a little wine, I also choose to get to know new friends. Usually if the person sitting next to you is equally alone just like you, chances of being able to make new friends are pretty good :p
Next, karaoke, an interesting component that worth a mention. Although not all wedding has karaoke session, for those who have, it's definitely a showtime for people who are not too shy to sing their lungs out. We don't really care if the singing is up to a certain standard (not necessary professional standard though). It's a different case if someone is merely "screaming" or singing out of tune, it's quite a torture, isn't it? Also, say someone is singing songs like "Un-break My Heart" or "Another Sad Love Song" ... not quite appropriate for the occasion, eh?
Oh, yeah, before ending this post, may this friend of mine whom I have known for at least half a decade live happily ever after with his lovely wife ... Congratulations to Kenny & Vivian on your marriage :)
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